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Rastas, Love and Marriage

Rastafari Reasoning

On the meaning of Rastafari:

Rasta man just lives and loves. Rasta livity is rooted in natural philosophy. That is why it is said that Rastafari is a natural one.

That is to say that there is no one accepted way in Rastafari. As long as one is natural and pure in his conception and action…he is a Rasta man.

Rastafari is a vibration one attains from deep and long meditations. In Rastafari one comes to discover the gentle footpaths of nature for oneself. It is a philosophy which arises from the conviction of your own soul based on reason and intuition.

Rastafari is a rational methodology that is applied in the task of discovering eternal truths. It is a way to view life, rationalize events and react to the system. Although it emphasizes communal living, at the same time it is highly individualistic because each Ras and Empress must embark on this discovery journey for the truth alone.

Despite the teachings and advice of all the elders and brethren around, the decision of each Rasta man or woman on what is right or wrong, is a highly personal thing. Because one cannot decieve himself eventhough he deceives others by seeking to comport with Othordoxy. A Rastaman or woman is not afraid of the truth as he or she knows and truly understands it! Thus the Rasta experience is a journey to the house of truth.

When this journey is undertaken with sincerity, it is well possible that certain immutable truths of life may become obvious to one. Just like logic, geometry, astronomy, architecture, arts, music and mathematics are known to contain certain inexorable precepts that are constant and sacred in nature.

On the meaning of Love and Marriage:

When one views the institution of marriage, it is realized that its rites and other solemnities are inventions of society. But the love that endures between a man and a woman is prior and superior to any subsequent societal rites of “marital” endorsement.

One Ras may differ from another in this perspective but InI would say that developing a great loving relationship takes work. Love blossoms with care and dies with neglect. Thus building a solid relationship based on true love ought to be the preoccupation of true lovers marriage or no marriage.

Matrimony was created as a superstructure towering over natural love. It will always remain a man made rite, subject to the changing attitudes of an evolving society.

The ones that agree with and accept this super structure do so for various reasons chief of which include a need for social legitimacy and legal recognition. That may be all well and good for the long term strategy of those ones.

Yet, InI must not lose focus of the fact that, one social institution (called marriage) should not, and cannot over-ride the purity, the sheer importance of sincere love between a man and a woman.

Ah so me sight it, I.

One Love

Jahdey

Posted in Rastas.


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  1. empress sharahya says

    Blessed Love. That was Very well recited, and totally accurate. It gives IanI total love when knowing that there are wise bredren and sistrens out there. Stay blessed. GUIDANCE

  2. semra says

    hi my name is semra and i live in england. i have been in love with a rasta man for a year now and he is my life. we have different backgrounds, i am a 42 year old british born muslim and my boyfriend is 23 lives in jamaica and is a rasta. i have a lot of faith in our relatinship and would appreciate any advise you have on advising me on cultural background. will it work

  3. Schannon says

    I would like to take the time to simply say thank you for the reasoning above. I would not classify myself as following the livity of Rastafari. I would even dare to say that I am still searching. Yes, my heart is tugging towards the Rasta livity. But I am not ready to let go and a part of me feels like I am fighting myself. I am writing this to you because I used to have my locks and I used to enjoy the company of the Brothers that I was associated with. But as stated above everyone has a different journey. Yes advice can be given but it doesnt mean anything if it doesnt feel right with the individual. So I cut my locks and I started to regret the day that I begin to search for the rasta livity. Now, I am like to the point not that I want to judge I just realize that if I take on this journey I can not listen to this one or that one elder or no. I have to listen to God. So I am being worked with and I am just so greatful that you took the time to write that reasoning. I would comment on the marriage portion but there is no need to. I am starting to realize that some things are not what they seem.

    Maybe you could help me to understand how can a Rasta man have more than one woman and treat one better than the other? Better yet dont even answer that.

  4. Tafadzwa says

    Blessed love all aspects i am impressed with all dat been said so ises to all idren n sistrens

  5. anthem says

    rastafari bless

  6. Ras Tk says

    I agree wit da fact dat man an woman could marry ina official way, but true love mus be da root of da marriage before da eyes of JAH. ISES!

  7. Eyoko Kymani says

    Bless bredren for sharing your truth on the subject of “marriage” and the Rasta path simple, enlightening, beautiful…as Trugh has a tendency to be. Dancing in Jah Light- Peace- One LOve…EY

  8. Eyoko Kymani says

    Bless bredren for sharing your truth on the subject of “marriage” and the Rasta path… simple, enlightening, beautiful…as Truth has a tendency to be. Dancing in Jah Light- Peace- One LOve…EY

  9. Sankore says

    Ises unto to the most high Jah fe the enlightenment.In Africa we se sharing is caring your reasoning is very logical if there is Jah Irit between man and woman marriage is accomplished but for material gains you afi gwaan unto all the Illegal legal structures of babylon. Keep the Iyabhingi Ises burning

  10. lynda says

    hiya

    lol

  11. sImPLy says

    Greetings,

    I am a “baby Rasta”, and for some reason, in love with an Irish guy. I don know if it is wrong or right.

    *Sometimes Jah said it’s fine, but I sometimes hear him say, “Well, don think about him right now, or forget him for now”..

    What does this mean?

  12. sImPLy says

    Greetings,

    I am a “baby Rasta”, and for some reason, in love with an Irish guy. I don know if it is wrong or right.

    *Sometimes Jah said it’s fine, but I sometimes hear him say, “Well, don think about him right now, or forget him for now”..

    What does this mean?

  13. silva diaz says

    greetings we all av 2 spirit inna us natural n spiritual ja cumz wid peace n love pain sickness depression etc. cum from d other side listen 2 jah n follow spirit b4 flesh which is natural n fulla iniquity d most high will seperate d chaff from d wheat so wots 2be will be as he will establish n perfect u then give u wot he has 4u he knew u b4 u were formed n says everything is permissable but not everything is benificial i an i personally would only hav a rastaman its not bout colour as im mixed race its bout one heart n compatability but a spiritual king of d same mind who walks n d statutes n precepts of d almighty in word n deed i n i hav met many who claim they rasta n turn out 2b dreads but 2b rasta is a long journey more so if living by spirit so u ave 2 know ur man by the fruit of his spirit n not get halfway on ur journey n he finds its not for him as he may grow in another direction…fig tree dont bring forth olives so listen 2 jah more than urself n u can neva go wrong…bless up sistren jah guidance

  14. Empress Shai says

    Blessed Love.

  15. kamau says

    greeting.blessed love.that was conscious reasoning man.jah bless.guidance

  16. marilee says

    I am an american women and I have to hand it to the rasta men they have gave the american women a bad taste in the mouth. we believe men should have one women not one for everyday of tne week!! being a spiritually evovled women I know Jah ment for that to be true!! solomon & David suffered for they’re weakness for women so I wouldn’t want to be too much like them!!! I hear you men say your are like solomon &david if this is true weak minded lustfull whoremongers were what they were!!!who killed other men to get thier women?? how is that a good example to follow! time to respect and honor women!!!

  17. Jahdey says

    Marilee

    Rastaman is meant for Rastawoman not American whores!

    Jahdey

  18. satori says

    Greetings in dey name of d Most High. I am an african woman born in the west. I am deeply in love and recently ended my relationship with my Kingman..to my regret.I want to know how I can win back InI love and affection

  19. sistababa says

    a real Jah reasoning, I&I completely agree with you man. so go and spread Jah love around, every man, woman and child have to give thanks to Jah and work for purify themselves to help the rest of umanity. Blessed love

  20. Natty416 says

    Love is Love regardless of colour, backround or anything else. Love has no bounds and does not discriminate and either should the human race.
    Bless to the most high InI
    Jah Rastafari

  21. thanduxolo says

    Hey u wicked me out there u need top read the Bible prudently u are all doomed u are gpoing straight to hell

  22. thanduxolo says

    Jahdey you are lacking knowledge is your God a universal God or a god of Rastas?

  23. whoibe? says

    Jahdey, american women are not whores and i resent you saying that about marilee..well rasta men need to stick with their rasta biatches! and stop dipping with women who believe in monogamy u asshole!!!!

  24. eve says

    jAhDeY…please do not give urself permission to use JAH’s name, redue your name,educate yourself first, get to the roots of ONE LOVE then come AND JUDGE WHO DI WHORES ARE, SEEN!!! YOU SHOULD NOT BE ALLOWED ON DIS WEB SITE AT ALL, IF IT WAS TO MI YOUR ACCESS WOULD BEEN DELETED LONG TIME AGO ALONG YOUR FAKE NAME,,,
    MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU, AND SENDING SOME WHITE RASTA LUV
    ~BIG UP DEY

  25. eve says

    Sister Marilee, im a white rasta in love bad wit mi fyyamon true lion. I dnt ave locks n dnt need to have one to be a ras, i live my life right and share my love and support wit whom in needs. I try mi best to do good rit by Jah while on earth not cuz i wan to be awarded when time comes, its just naturaly have it inside, i listen to my heart my sister and follow whats right fi mi and mi luv once. there is good and bad in all kind, rasta or not;does not mean if you rasta you wont make any wrong choices or you become sane trust me!!! we all hve made our wrong decisions, just like you rit now already gave bad names to our Kings and our warriors. i dnt know what kind of rasta man you been dealing with but what ever you do mak sure you wont fool yourself if you see dreads and locks, there is more into rastafari so dnt confuse yourself with babylon. when it comes to women yes MEN all kind do wrong time to time or most of di time. is your choice where you want be when dealing wit warriorz, mak sure you collect wisdom bout lion’s heart and sole. Rasta man have much more to offer then givin us bad names. remember there is one jah fi all of us, one aim, one destiny~ mo respek, bless up sister
    empress eve

  26. eve says

    Sister Marilee, one more thing, what do you think bout polygamy? they are not RASTAS and they did not follow King David and Solomon…what is wrong wit di entire picture? you dnt think they give women bad names? and they are right located by us here us, i hope i made my point sister. I praise and honor mi rasta brethren Jah Know!!!
    ~one luv

  27. Jahdey says

    Eva or whatever

    You have the wrong interpretation, mixed up with vain imagination.

    Jahdey

  28. lilmama says

    Jah asks us to live our lives based on compassion, not judgement. Rasta hearts know this. Judging someones relationship based on the woman bein white and the King being black is against Jah’s will, any judgement at all is vanity on the part of the person who is doin the judging, vain cause they think they are on the same level as Jah Hself, The only One perfect, and whole in spirit to be able to judge.
    Anyone who spirit is drawn to Rastafari, no matter what your colour or background, dont let judging people stop you from followin the path cause the words of a fool are not beneficial to the wise.
    Blessing to the people who love to judge, with the help of the Father, you will be able to start lookin on people with compassion and love.
    Bless

  29. rastalove says

    I’ve been in a relationship with a Rasta man for 7 years. We have no kids – he has kids with other women and still sleeps with them and thinks its ok. Although its up to me to deal with him or not, its hard when you love a person. Do all Rasta men have multiple relationships and say they love you? Any insight from women in similar relationships or a Rasta man with a comment would be greatly appreciated. Blessed.

  30. Dagido says

    blessed,lets chrome Babylon sin rastalove

  31. FUCKAGIDO says

    RASTALOVE GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE AND FIND SOMEONE JUST FOR YOURSELF AND NOT THE WORLD, SORRY TO SAY THIS BUT SHARING LOVE WITH A MAN THAT FIND HIMSELF ALL OVER THE PLACE IS NOT PURE, YOU JUST GOTTA LET IT GO AND TRUST ME YOU WILL FIND THAT YOU WERE SUCH A FOOL AND WHAT WAS I THINKING! I WAS THERE ONCE AND WONT ALLOW MYSELF TO GET THERE AGAIN. TRY TO FIND YOURSELF AND YOU WILL SEE THAT YOU DESERVE MORE THEN THIS. TEACH HIM HOW TO RESPECT WOMEN BECAUSE THE OTHERS ARE THE ONCE GIVEING THE WRONG IMPRESION ABOUT WOMEN, KNOWING THAT HE IS WITH YOU AND STILL FUCK HIM. MEN ALWAYS THINK WITH THEIR DICKS AND NOT THEIR BRAINS OR HEART NO MATTER WHAT COLOR OR RACE HE IS, THEY ARE ALL THE SAME AND WHEN YOU FIND A REAL MAN YOU HANG ON TO HIM BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT TOO MANY OUT THERE. TINA

  32. Lioncub says

    I am a white woman with a black rasta man and we have a beautiful baby boy together. He is my one and only and I am his. We are devoted to each other through our love for one another and the proof of that is our son. Let us be blessed with more children for ours is a home of pure love. Jah love, respect.

    • Jahdey says

      ^^Let there be no more speeches about black and whites for no such colouration of human skin exist. We are all human beings if you only can learn. Those coded attributions of superiority and inferiority you employ only show up your mind as too young and confused or even worse. It dont matter to InI the Rastaman you may love..it matter to InI that ye know Rastalivity and Jahlove. When ye realize Rastalivity and Jahlove then you will know that “white” and “blacks” are coded spell of the devil.

      Jahdey

  33. Empress Jud-Aye says

    ONE LOVE TO ALL THE RIGHTEOUS ONES
    Marriage is a union between two people and it’s very important because it’s the beginning of a life time journey.

    Here we are talking about it like it’s some regular thing even likkle youths can do…

    Being a RASTA SYMPATHIZER, I believe strongly in their undertakings…

    WHITE, BLACK, YELLOW, BROWN…it doesn’t matter…We all should STAND AS ONE…

    Like said above, RASTALIVITY IS UNITY….

    And the world sees RASTA as a “LAZY MAN COMPLAINTS” to stay away from the Worlds technology and partisipations in life…

    I forbid that!!!

    RASTA STANDS ALONE!!!
    PEOPLE STAND UNIFIED!!!

    ONE LOVE!!!

    EMPRESS JUD-AYE!!!

  34. ras dee says

    rastafaria stil!

  35. juju says

    i am married too a rasta man and we been married for more then 12 yrs it been heavenly .. He very respectable and does not have multiple women…. but the bases of the relationship should be that he really loves you,,, my man says he always wanted a latina women so i guess it depend on the individual… If he loves you he will be with you and only you…. He so lovable and so true……

  36. Cody Everett says

    so the laws of being married are the same as any other but you still need to feel the right of purity?
    is that the point your trying to prove?

  37. V for Love says

    I met a very beautiful rasta man 1 month ago and he said he wanted to marry me right away.. We met 3 times in the past month and I fell in love with him, however pulled back because I am afraid they are all polygamous. He called me on the phone a few times but I didn’t want to see him anymore. I must say I now regret it, he is so beautiful!



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